It is just a job, it not your life. People tend to get so involved with the job till they are willing to give up life for the job. If you are not happy, then find another job and leave.

No need to feel so sad about it.

Your company will not die without you, You too will not die without your company.

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try don’t depressed and emotional.
u was told by someone higher level in ur office that a good friend of u back stabbing at ur back in the meeting.
maybe u should investigate what really happening.

i once blame my collegue back stabbing me but at the end it was just a misunderstood.

anyway

if really something happen and u are not happy just 4got about this so call good friend and take all the remaining leave, seek for new enviroment.

I’m sorry to hear that happened to you, but at least you know what kind of “friend” that person is. How I feel about betrayal is the same as how I feel about cheating–if a person is going to do that to me, they’re going to do it regardless. I agree with what a lot of the commentators above me wrote, stick to your guns now that you’ve made the decision…free yourself from the ugly situation and let go. =)

And who knows, this may be the big change you needed to drive you on to something bigger and better!

Joanne, thanks for the concern. You wrote “this may be the big change you needed to drive you on to something bigger and better!” really brightened up my day and make me think positively. thank you so much ! I feel better now.

feeling funny i’m commenting, but i’ll do it coz i want to wish you the best too. . .as a friend.

u have not been backstabbed for sure. your best friend has always been your best friend. i know, i’m there.

js once commented,”you are a scorpio,right?. . how come you dont act like one!!??”
well, simply, i dont ACT. . .i’m myself all the time.

a ‘decision’ is to give yourself a direction. good to have.

why do you think all cars have a reverse gear ( ..well .. not that i drive. .but)?

Is reversing always a BAD decision?

dont like missing the best pieces of my working life. definitely dont like missing a good colleague like you. nevertheless, all the best whether you are here with us or not.

this was bad…

to be honest, jerry… i think u shud haf been da one who got promoted… u deserve da promotion WAY more than him… cuz i love ur designs… heck, everybody loves ur work… not just ur contributions to da i-mags… but ur blog as well… ;D everybody loves ur blog… =)and EVERYBODY knows that ur work is so much better than his… seriously… i was shocked when they promoted him instead of u… cuz u r among da most creative ppl i know… in other places, u wud haf been an Art Director already… i think he prolly got promoted cuz he’s such a backstabber… i was shocked and angry when i found out… i’m so disappointed in him, man… i cant believe i dated someone like that… anywayz, jerry, just leave this hell hole and establish ur career elsewhere… just like i did… im doing so much better now and im positive that u will be too… all da best to u in ur future endeavours… i’ll always haf ur back, dude! ngo ci chee nei!!! =D

Awyewwwww……… violence comic… with the evil double head snake but y…. the snake’s face not fierce at all???

Well, *sayang sayang* Jerry… my close friend did backstabbed me… for manytimes… no matter how nice i treat her… take her as sista… taking care of her… but at the end… she is the double heads snake too…sigh…

Get over and work hard ya!! =)

I am sure you still have much more friends that appreciate you more…..